In my experience, which is thirty years of ministry, I can tell you that people tend to leave other people alone when they they don’t have something kicking inside their own skin. And, as a heterosexual male, I can tell you my attraction to females is not threatened by gay marriage. You could put me in the Village People for fifty years and I would still dream about women. There’s only one type of man whose marriage would be threatened by gay marriage, and that’s the kind that can’t stop thinking about other men.